Life in the royal harem was very different from that imagined by
Europeans.
As an institution in Ottoman society the harem reflected the
secluded privacy of family life. The cariyes or maidservants who
served the women of the household were trained and educated in
the skills and accomplishments thought appropriate for women at
the time, and after a certain number of years in service allowed
to marry. In the royal harem, under the guidance of the sultn's
mother or the principal officer of the harem household, a woman
known as the chief treasurer, the girls were taught to read and
write, play music, and the intricate rules of palace etiquette
and protocol.
Very few were
honoured even by the privilege of waiting at the sultn'sg table,
and still fewer became royal wivesfter
nine years of service the harem girls were given their
manumission document, a set of diamond earrings and ring, a
trousseau and some gold as their marriage portion, and suitable
husbands found for them. They were renowned for their good
breeding and for their discretion, never being known to reveal
any intimate details about the royal family to outsiders.
Nevertheless, graffiti on the harem walls shows that not all
cariyes were contented with their lot: 'Dilferib whose heart
burns / Is wretched / O God / Alas alas
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